心理年龄测试：准专业的心理年龄鉴定测试

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心理年龄已经不是一个新鲜的概念了，到底什么是心理年龄？我们择日再谈，今天推荐给大家的是一个很不错的心理年龄测试，如果你相信人的心理年龄和实际年龄并不总是一致，同时又想测测自己的心理年龄的话，这个测试一定不能错过，测完请留个言，准不准就留给大家评判了

这个结果极其郁闷

鉴定结果
您的心理年龄38岁

与您实际年龄差14岁

幼稚度40％

成熟度61％

老化度47％

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The Portrait of the Teacher Idealist (eNFj)

The Idealists called Teachers are abstract in their thought and speech, cooperative in their style of achieving goals, and directive and expressive in their interpersonal relations. Learning in the young has to be beckoned forth, teased out from its hiding place, or, as suggested by the word "education," it has to be "educed." by an individual with educative capabilities. Such a one is the eNFj, thus rightly called the educative mentor or Teacher for short. The Teacher is especially capable of educing or calling forth those inner potentials each learner possesses. Even as children the Teachers may attract a gathering of other children ready to follow their lead in play or work. And they lead without seeming to do so.

Teachers expect the very best of those around them, and this expectation, usually expressed as enthusiastic encouragement, motivates action in others and the desire to live up to their expectations. Teachers have the charming characteristic of taking for granted that their expectations will be met, their implicit commands obeyed, never doubting that people will want to do what they suggest. And, more often than not, people do, because this type has extraordinary charisma.

 The Teachers are found in no more than 2 or 3 percent of the population. They like to have things settled and arranged. They prefer to plan both work and social engagements ahead of time and tend to be absolutely reliable in honoring these commitments. At the same time, Teachers are very much at home in complex situations which require the juggling of much data with little pre-planning. An experienced Teacher group leader can dream up, effortlessly, and almost endlessly, activities for groups to engage in, and stimulating roles for members of the group to play. In some Teachers, inspired by the responsiveness of their students or followers, this can amount to genius which other types find hard to emulate. Such ability to preside without planning reminds us somewhat of an Provider, but the latter acts more as a master of ceremonies than as a leader of groups. Providers are natural hosts and hostesses, making sure that each guest is well looked after at social gatherings, or that the right things are expressed on traditional occasions, such as weddings, funerals, graduations, and the like. In much the same way, Teachers value harmonious human relations about all else, can handle people with charm and concern, and are usually popular wherever they are. But Teachers are not so much social as educational leaders, interested primarily in the personal growth and development of others, and less in attending to their social needs.

Mikhail Gorbachev is an example of a Teacher Idealist.

A full description of the Teacher and the Idealists is in People Patterns or Please Understand Me II

Profile: ENFJ
Revision: 3.0
Date of Revision: 23 Feb 2005

ENFJs are the benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity. They have tremendous charisma by which many are drawn into their nurturant tutelage and/or grand schemes. Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.

ENFJs are global learners. They see the big picture. The ENFJs focus is expansive. Some can juggle an amazing number of responsibilities or projects simultaneously. Many ENFJs have tremendous entrepreneurial ability.

ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness. But they don't resemble the SJs or even the NTJs in organization of the environment nor occasional recalcitrance. ENFJs are organized in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.

ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.

TRADEMARK: "The first shall be last"

This refers to the open-door policy of ENFJs. One ENFJ colleague always welcomes me into his office regardless of his own circumstances. If another person comes to the door, he allows them to interrupt our conversation with their need. While discussing that need, the phone rings and he stops to answer it. Others drop in with a 'quick question.' I finally get up, go to my office and use the call waiting feature on the telephone. When he hangs up, I have his undivided attention!

Functional Analysis:

Extraverted Feeling

Extraverted Feeling rules the ENFJ's psyche. In the sway of this rational function, these folks are predisposed to closure in matters pertaining to people, and especially on behalf of their beloved. As extraverts, their contacts are wide ranging. Face-to-face relationships are intense, personable and warm, though they may be so infrequently achieved that intimate friendships are rare.

Introverted iNtuition

The dynamic nature of their intuition moves ENFJs from one project to another with the assurance that the next one will be perfect, or much more nearly so than the last. ENFJs are continually looking for newer and better solutions to benefit their extensive family, staff, or organization.

Extraverted Sensing

Sensing is extraverted. ENFJs can manage details, particularly those necessary to implement the prevailing vision. These data have, however, a magical flexible quality. Something to be bought can be had for a song; the same something is invaluable when it's time to sell. (We are not certain, but we suspect that such is the influence of the primary function.) This wavering of sensory perception is made possible by the weaker and less mature status with which the tertiary is endowed.

Introverted Thinking

Introverted Thinking is least apparent and most enigmatic in this type. In fact, it often appears only when summoned by Feeling. At times only in jest, but in earnest if need be, Thinking entertains as logical only those conclusions which support Feeling's values. Other scenarios can be shown invalid or at best significantly inferior. Such "Thinking in the service of Feeling" has the appearance of logic, but somehow it never quite adds up.

Introverted Thinking is frequently the focus of the spiritual quest of ENFJs. David's lengthiest psalm, 119, pays it homage. "Law," "precept," "commandment," "statute:" these essences of inner thinking are the mysteries of Deity for which this great Feeler's soul searched.

Famous ENFJs:

David, King of Israel
U.S. Presidents:
Abraham Lincoln
Ronald Reagan

William Cullen Bryant, poet
Abraham Maslow, psychologist and proponent of self-actualization
Ross Perot
Sean Connery
Elizabeth Dole
Francois Mitterand
Dick Van Dyke
Andy Griffith
James Garner
William Aramony, former president of United Way
Gene Hackman (Superman, Antz)
Dennis Hopper (Speed)
Brenda Vaccaro
Craig T. Nelson (Coach)
Diane Sawyer (Good Morning America)
Randy Quaid (Bye Bye, Love; Independence Day)
Tommy Lee Jones (The Fugitive)
Kirstie Alley ("Cheers," Look Who's Talking movies)
Michael Jordan, NBA basketball player
Johnny Depp (Pirates of the Caribbean)
Oprah Winfrey
Bob Saget America's Funniest Home Videos, Full House
Julia Louis-Dreyfus ("Seinfeld")
Ben Stiller (The Royal Tenenbaums)
Peyton Manning, Indianapolis Colts quarterback
Matthew McConaughey (The Wedding Planner)
Pete Sampras, Tennis Champion
Lauren Graham ("Gilmore Girls")
Ben Affleck (The Sum Of All Fears)
John Cusack (High Fidelity)

    其实很多人都很佩服温州人的商业头脑,今天接触了2个温州的老板.发现温州人在生意上有一种犹太人的特质.大多数温州人都有一种闯劲,生命中有种风一样的元素.年轻的时候,是一种无根的漂泊,他们刚于出手,刚于投资,也同样勇于面对失败,敢于放弃.

    他们的身上有很多值得我们学习的东西.

    其实自己也希望一个人出来打拼自己的天空.可是现在的情况是没有足够的资金来支持一个人创业的,所以现在的目标只能依靠自己的口才以及很少的阅历和年轻的经历来依附在其他的资源上,力图将资源放大,从而实现自己的价值,从而积攒自己的资金和人脉.

    准备和老板提出创办江南办事处的意见.来到一个新的环境,一个全新的空间,付出自己的努力,成败是个变数,但是经验是无价的.来到一个上升空间大,上升机会多的地方.

    相信老婆会支持我的想法的,这也是我的幸运.

Ps.人要学会面向没有路的山依然向前攀登,学会自己走出一条本来没有的道路.

有时候记忆象是一条河流，穿梭的同时还要多多少少带走你点什么。

回想童年的点点滴滴的时候总是觉得有点力不从心，习惯了数字化的生活，从前阳光下树林里，和爷爷一起在树林里捉蛐蛐割兔子草的日子总是不那么清晰。也许是那一段段割裂的生活，脑海中从前的印象显得支离破碎，模模糊糊。

爷爷病榻上的那张脸好像从来就没有变过，自使至终，慈祥如昨。还记得那些小院中的笑声吗爷爷，那只可爱的狗狗，那群逍遥的鸽子，院子后面那棵爸爸小时候种下的杨树，还有我年少记忆中门前的垂柳。那一切的一切，还都在你的脑海里，不是吗。

    是否只有在书写的时候才会真正的在平静中忆起从前呢，那么多那么多的日子里，却记不起那头花白的银发，却记不起那双斑驳而有力的手！

很多时候，自责会如同潮水般袭来，埋怨不懂得何谓珍惜的自我，被时间带走的越来越多，一同涌出的责备也渐渐的铺满回忆的路。唯独这个时候才会真正的懂得珍惜的道理，与其不知所谓的呼喊今日的弥足可贵，还不如学会勇敢的面对脚下的坎坎坷坷，用一颗感恩的心去面对，明白了知足的真谛才会知道什么样的时候更应该珍惜。

 刚刚拿起电话却不知该播往何处，才想起原来生活中的自己，一直在扮演一个坚强的角色，以坚毅的心支撑着身边的人。谁会想到，诸如此类的人们有时候也需要一个倾听者。时间就在一日一日的晨昏交替中带走我们那么多想要留下却又力不从心的东西，那么是不是考虑的一切一直以来都没什么意义呢？